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[02 Jan 2007|09:44pm]

i havent done anything on this thing in what seems like years and i saw this group thingy and it made me smile

unwritten rule: never stop being friends with awesome people
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[28 Mar 2005|10:04pm]
[ mood | stressed ]

I say we just all leave this community and let it drift into cyberspace peacefully. I think it's the way it would want to go.

Plus I don't see the point anymore.

Any objections?

Didn't think so <3

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Fabricated holidays rock! [10 Feb 2005|10:38pm]

[ mood | confused ]

It's almost Valentine's day, time for those without relationships to feel like they're less of a person for it. Stupid Hallmark. I can't say I'm that upset about it, but I felt as though the community should see some action. I hope somebody gets outraged because of this post and makes a hostile comment.

UNWRITTEN RULE: Um, don't let holidays get you down? Yes.

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[27 Jan 2005|09:55pm]
[ mood | exhausted ]

I hate how I come across wrong to some people. And I hate how I'm constantly worried and trying to fix relationships.. or not even relationships but like.. friendliness with some people, and what they 'think' i'm like. And I wonder why I have no energy? Its draining. I just wish people knew my intentions are good and I'm not a horrible person. Atleast I don't think so.

Actually things lately have been really good. I'm just saying there is always something I want to fix. You know?

Oh and this is just a random question but:

Do you ever think about your funeral? Like if you died right now, what people would remember you as, what'd they say, what'd they regret? Ever wonder who would or wouldn't show up, who'd cry, what affect it'd have? It'd be kind of interesting to see, if you could somehow.

..I don't mean that in a suicidal way. I do not want to die. I've just thought about it more often after my aunt's funeral and mass. Its kind of weird..

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hate to interrupt the silence.. [13 Jan 2005|11:38pm]
[ mood | indescribable ]

i've got to realize things i say are heard, acknowledged and possibly repeated. it doesn't always register that i am listened to.

sometimes i just want to stop everything so i can look it all over. so i can analyze how it all happened and how i can undo it all; how i can fix it. i am not perfect, but i wish more people saw things the way i do. it'd make it easier to explain my intentions.

typing this on livejournal does nothing. it doesn't even come close to decribing what its supposed to.
i've felt almost every emotion possible lately, and its strange because i usually am not emotional.

and tomorrow i'll feel something completely different and ignore this all. i don't know if it makes it better or worse.

everyone looks for answers when truth be told, there aren't really any. theres no right and wrong that you can prove. nothing is straight foward. right and wrong, and how things happen is all perspective, and no perspective is the same. so there is no big picture. and if there is its impossible for us to even begin to see.

so if there aren't answers, what do i do with the questions?
this surely puts a damper on the unwritten rules theory.
What is the point of this community..?
I forget.

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[14 Dec 2004|01:51am]

[ mood | indescribable ]

Why is it that people always seem to be at their emotional worst during the holidays? It's meant to be a time of joy and other such crap.. and it's not for many people. And it sucks.

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new [13 Dec 2004|04:21pm]

[ mood | thinking about Brent ]

hey guys im new. i found this community looking at the term "i love you" began to read it and was intrigued :)ok anyways i have a question. kinda dumb,but i dunno, i need help LOL. ok, i like this boy in my english class,and we talk but not really that much,not enough to consider him anything. i want it to be something,but i dont know how to establish this,im kinda shy so im not very good at this sort of thing. we are about to have a two week winter break,and ill go insane if i dont get to talk to him during this,two weeks is too long! i really really like him,probably more than any guy ive ever liked. anyways,im just wondering what i should do..i dont want to sound desprate or dumb but at the same time,i dont want to sit back and wonder if i would of had a chance or not with him. i think this community is great,and i cant wait to become more aquanted with you all. muahs.<3

-Danielle :)

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This place needs some activity [22 Oct 2004|04:19pm]

[ mood | confused ]

What's your first reaction when your boyfriend/girlfriend or someone you are interested in asks you to 'hang out'? I've never viewed it as more than just doing whatever, like watching a movie, but I've been told by a friend that it's a saying that's viewed negatively, where 'hanging out' really means just fooling around. I just thought of what he said randomly a few minutes ago so meh. Is he crazy or is this actually true? I'm kinda starting to believe it.

I've also realized that only one of these posts actually has an unwritten rule. We can make this an unwritten rule after everyone has discussed what they think, or something.

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[27 Sep 2004|09:55pm]

how dou know its meant to be?????? or just a fling???
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i don't know what to say but.. [27 Sep 2004|07:41pm]
[ mood | confused ]

the truth is.. all these highs and lows are starting to leave me jaded.

and all i want is everything i cannot have.


[01 Sep 2004|08:48pm]

[ mood | restless ]

hi guys i just joined :) i was told about this community by behind blue eyes :P


why dont guys know what a girl wants? You'd think after being with a girl for almost 2 years, you'd figure that she's romantic and likes the little things. Is it bad if you love someone but at the same time, they dont have or give you what you want. The person has all the qualities and you love him...but he doesnt go out of his way for u. i dont know its confusing i guess but thats how i feel lol. My bf knows i am a big romantic, but never does anything romantic for me. he used to...when we were first together almost 2 years ago lol. he wrote poems about us, and drew me drawings, wrote me letters, and now...the most romantic thing he'll do is carry my books for me.

haha i dont really know what this community is about, but just wondering what you guys think. Boys just dont get it lol hah

anyways, i hope 2 meet ya guys :P


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[01 Sep 2004|07:24pm]

hey evry1 just wanted to tell u i just became a member of this community....

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Oi! [31 Aug 2004|02:42am]

[ mood | hot ]

I wanted to join this community. Maybe it's because it's almost 3 in the morning, so I'm too tired to think. But yeah. Embrace me.

Anyway, about love...I'm still not sure what that is. I've only been in one relationship. In my opinion, it's impossible to determine what love is unless you have several relationships to base it on. Perhaps love was involved in the first relationship, but you can't be certain without the experience of having others.


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hey.. [24 Aug 2004|09:04pm]

hey. so i just joined =)
i was looking around temporary_scars's userinfo and found this place. seems pretty cool =D
although you girls seem to hate guys somewhat.. *hides* ;)

so, hey. how are you? what are your names?
i like anything rock/punk or metal. my names james =D
6__ thoughts?

[23 Aug 2004|09:53pm]

I was wondering...

What is with guys and commitment? Why do they see it as such a bigger issue than woman do? I just don't understand. It's discouraging.

Any thoughts?
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[04 Aug 2004|01:48am]

[ mood | contemplative ]

Song it may be, but I believe it's true:

Something's gotta go wrong cause I'm feeling way too damn good

Cause I mean, doesn't it always turn out that every time that something good happens, it seems that something bad happens. And vice versa. I don't know, I find it weird is all.

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[02 Aug 2004|05:42pm]
[ mood | pensive ]


i hate when they're pushy. i hate how they whisper things they think you want to hear, when they don't mean it. and how they ask you so many questions when they know you just don't know. i hate how i feel bad telling them i don't feel the same. and i hate how guys don't get hints. girls give off so many hints, and they're rarely gotten, or acknowledged. i hate leading guys on, because i know being led on sucks. i hate not knowing what the hell it is i want.

on a similar subject:

what does a kiss mean to you? like.. when you kiss someone what is it supposed to mean?

i mean sometimes the other person is just cute.
sometimes a kiss is just a kiss.
its cute.. but that feeling you get from kissing someone you really CARE about is missing. you know?

it just sucks if its just a kiss to one person.. and more to the other person.

uhh i forget what my point was. anyway. answer the bolded question.


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[22 Jul 2004|03:50am]
yeah, so if anyone else wants to say anything feel free to post.


ha. k thanks.

[12 Jul 2004|06:43pm]
[ mood | confused ]

getting to know someone can be the best.. but worst thing ever. its like.. you meet them, they seem cool enough, so you start hanging out. one of two things can happen. they can either be that cool person that you thought.. and you will end up being close for a while. OR you'll end up starting to get to know eachother, and one, or both, of you decide you don't like who the other is. and it sucks thinking that you knew this good person, and they turned out to be something totally different. and you gotta start the process all over again. but i guess that is life. and someday you'll find the right person.. and it'll click.. and they will stay.

uhm. i'm gonna try to stick to the whole rule thing. since this is unwritten rules?

unwritten rule : try to be a decent person to everyone. if they aren't back its really their problem. and never give up. don't get obsessed with the search, just have fun along the way, i guess?

yeah. anyway let's try that one. see how it works.

anything else?

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first post. hmmmm [07 Jul 2004|12:49am]
[ mood | alright ]

it must really suck for a guy when two people he has gone out with get to talk.

but it really does feel better to vent about someone.. and have someone else feel the exact same way.

anyway, with that said, i decided i'll try and post something in here.

girls are bitches. and it does suck. but you want to know why we are bitches? cause we have to deal with some of the most immature assholes ever. girls have to be bitches to some guys. we wouldn't make it in this world if we weren't. but you know.. if you're a decent person.. you can get through the bitchiness.

it just sucks for the few good guys out there that have to deal with our bitchy-ness. but with what we go through, you can't always blame us.

i guess guys can say the same about being assholes.

its sure says a lot about people that we have to become bitches and assholes to make it through life in one piece.

i don't want to be like that anymore. only to those who deserve it.

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